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Well-being with Marie - Extraordinary living: Humiliation and negative emotions – How do we deal...

Well-being with Marie - Extraordinary living: Humiliation and negative emotions – How do we deal... :   Humiliation and negative emotions – How do we deal with difficult negative emotions that affect our self-esteem & sense of se...

Humiliation and negative emotions – How do we deal with difficult negative emotions?

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  Humiliation and negative emotions – How do we deal with difficult negative emotions that affect our self-esteem & sense of self-worth? How to move out of your negative space into a better space…? Some of these descriptive words below might have some resonance with you… Ashamed Beaten down Cut down Criticized Dehumanized Disrespected Embarrassed Humiliated Inferior Insulted Invalidated Labeled Lectured to Mocked Offended Put down Powerless Resentful Ridiculed Stereotyped Teased Underestimated Worthless What does it mean? If you are experiencing any of the above negative emotions, it means that something traumatic has taken place in your life, which has left you angry, humiliated, resentful, embarrassed, powerless, and confused. It could be that your partners has left you for someone else, you were fired from your job, your partner cheated on you, you are being accused of something,   someone may be bullying you, you might have fail...

Well-being with Marie - Extraordinary living: Domestic violence & narcissism – What every person...

Well-being with Marie - Extraordinary living: Domestic violence & narcissism – What every person... : Domestic violence & narcissism – What every person should know! Being in a relationship with a narcissist can be devastating and...

Domestic violence & narcissism – What every person should know! Being in a relationship with a narcissist can be devastating and extremely abusive!

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Domestic violence & narcissism – What every person should know! Being in a relationship with a narcissist can be devastating and extremely abusive! Domestic violence and emotional abuse are behaviors used by one person in a relationship to control the other. Partners may be married or not married; heterosexual, gay, or lesbian; living together, separated or dating. Examples of abuse include: ■ name-calling or putdowns ■ keeping a partner from contacting their family or friends ■ withholding money ■ stopping a partner from getting or keeping a job ■ actual or threatened physical harm ■ sexual assault ■ stalking ■ intimidation Violence can be criminal and includes physical assault (hitting, pushing, shoving, etc.), sexual abuse (unwanted or forced sexual activity), and stalking. Although emotional, psychological abuse (such as gas-lighting) and financial abuse are not criminal behaviors, however, they are form...

Well-being with Marie - Extraordinary living: Happiness and well-being for 2013, what does it me...

Well-being with Marie - Extraordinary living: Happiness and well-being for 2013, what does it me... :   HAPPINESS & WELL-BEING? "Happiness is the meaning and the purpose of life, the whole aim and end of human existence." —Aristotl...

Happiness, fulfillment and well-being for 2015, what does it mean?

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  HAPPINESS & WELL-BEING? "Happiness is the meaning and the purpose of life, the whole aim and end of human existence." —Aristotle "If you want to live a happy life, tie it to a goal. Not to people or things." - Albert Einstein We have all asked the question ‘am I happy?’ but perhaps we are asking the wrong question... ...So what should we be asking instead of "am I happy ?" Well let’s first look at lasting states of well - being and life fulfillment, as oppose to fleeting emotions, such as happy or sad, to assess our lives. Well-being is all about your state of life and living. Well-being is a construct (construct meaning a complex concept, idea or notion) which has many measurable elements like, emotional/psychological, economic, social, physical, and environmental well-being. Well-being is also all about ‘flourishing’ and thriving in our lives. It has got to do with ‘self actualisi...

Well-being with Marie - Extraordinary living: Why people are judgmental - How to be vigilant in ...

Well-being with Marie - Extraordinary living: Why people are judgmental - How to be vigilant in ... :   Be vigilant in your judgments of others! ‘Those people are like this, these people are like that ... Sound familiar? O...

Why people are judgmental - How to be vigilant in your judgments of others!

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  Be vigilant in your judgments of others! ‘Those people are like this, these people are like that ... Sound familiar? Our tendency to make unfair, biased and un-informed negative judgments of others. Dropping your judgment and expectation of others: What does this mean for your own personal growth towards extraordinary living? “If you judge people, you have no time to love them.” ~Mother Theresa Let me start off by saying, it is sometimes necessary to make judgments based on our assessment of our environment for safety & life-preservation. This is not the context of this post. What does it mean when we negatively and unfairly judge people?, or expect people to be a certain way, instead of just accepting and allowing people to be who they are, or what they aspire to be. "Your perceptions and judgments of others reveal so much about your own personality," says Dustin Wood, assistant professor of psychology at Wake Forest. ...